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Thursday
Dec042008

« love thursday: creating family traditions ... even when they make no sense »

I call this my "Heart Partridge."

So we arrived back from England late Saturday night, and spent Sunday working through jetlag (read: doing absolutely nothing).  I did have one goal for the day, however: 

The Christmas tree had to go up.

Putting up the Christmas tree is quite possibly my favourite holiday tradition, and Marcus and I have worked really hard to ensure that the event includes various rites and rituals.  First, Marcus puts on a mix of Christmas music (which can include anything from Nat King Cole to Bing Crosby to James Brown to Run DMC).  And then, the tree trimming begins.  In our house, we have three rules:

1)  We collect ornaments of all kinds, whether they are store-bought, an original Alex creation or hand-made by one of the various children in our lives.  Even unusual gift-tags are kept.  We don't care.  If it's decorative, it works.

2)  Each year, we buy at least one more ornament.

3)  Without exception, they all go on the tree.

As a result, our tree looks ... well, INSANE.  We all participate in the tree trimming, and other than the occasional encouragement to "fill in the gaps!" the ornaments simply fall where they may.  Some of the most notable:

This is one of a set of really cheap ornaments Marcus and I bought when we first got married.  We had no ornaments, and we just wanted to make our tree look a little less ... sad.   After 7 years, these particular ornaments are starting to look pretty sad themselves, but, they all go on the tree.

 A gingerbread house ornament, with the words "Celebrate Adoption" emblazoned on a roof eave.  Not exactly something I would've purchased myself, and I'm pretty sure this was given to us by a well-meaning friend the Christmas after Alex was born.  So yes, every year, it goes on the tree.

 

This tiny nutcracker was actually a gift-wrap embellishment on a Christmas present given to us a few years ago.  Of course, it has to go on the tree.

 

A few years ago, I noticed we had an inordinate number of angel ornaments -- so I decided that every year, at least one of the ornaments we bought had to be an angel ornament.  This one is last year's.

This year?  I bought three. And they all go on the tree.

And finally, once the tree is completely finished, we do our Annual Family-Portrait-in-a-Christmas-Ball:

(See previous portraits here.)

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Happy Love Thursday, everyone.  Please leave your links to your images and stories of love in the comments section, below.

And may you spend the last few weeks of 2008 creating your own family traditions.

 

Song:  The Little Drummer Boy/Peace on Earth, the duet performed by David Bowie and Bing Crosby.  This particular version remains my very favourite song of the season.

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Every year my college aged daughters and I make handmade Christmas decorations. I do quite a few of them and then at the end of the season divide what I have between the two of them so that they will eventually have a lot of ornaments for their own trees. I begin the next year with a theme idea for the ornaments for that year. Last year I made these two sided tags which were so popular I began to sell them...
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The year previously I altered sea shells
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December 6, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAscenderRisesAbove

LOVE this! You guys rock! Im not particularly christmasy - my mom LOVES that stuff. but i have a feeling, if she didnt do it - id really miss it!

December 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterardean

i love a Christmas tree with a wide variety of ornaments. Mine is much the same. And i LOVE your idea for the family portrait in the Christmas ball each year. Is it too late to start a new tradition with an 18yr old? LOL

December 8, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterautumnsun

Your decorations look so warm and festive, I am woefully behind this year! BTW, I've heard of you but had never stopped by your blog until the new BlogHer CE announcement. So nice to meet you finally!

December 9, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAngela at mommy bytes

I love that last picture! I like the concept, and the execution.

December 9, 2008 | Unregistered Commentermagpie

I love these photographs. If you just happened to be looking to do another photo tutorial, I would love to know about getting pretty pictures of ornaments. I was thinking about doing a post similar to this one (I want to write about the ornaments that are important to me), but my ornament pictures are either blurry or way too bright. I don't have a very fancy camera (Canon S3 IS), so I don't know how much I'd be able to do, but it would be nice to know.

December 12, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterElizabeth

cutest family portrait I have EVER seen.

December 15, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterdeb

Every body acknowledges that humen's life seems to be high priced, however different people need cash for various stuff and not every person gets big sums money. Thus to get good home loans and just student loan should be a proper way out.

April 7, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterAngeline33Jensen

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