It would be easy to dismiss him and say "Oh, poor baby, having a hard time with all those billions, are you?" (and to his credit, after the tweets above got shared and re-shared thousands of times, he later tweeted: "To people out there with real problems: I'm sorry the whining of a newly wealthy programmer gets more attention than yours. Stay strong.") but honestly, I feel really sorry for him. He sounds miserable.
When I was in my early 20s, just graduating from university, if you'd asked me what I wanted for myself, I would've probably told you that I wanted to live in a big house and drive a fancy car. As I've gotten older, however, the big house has become less important (there are only 3 of us, after all, and our house is plenty big enough and comfortable for our family), and I've no intention of giving up my 8-year-old dented Toyota Yaris anytime soon (it still drives great, it's paid off, and besides -- I work from home, what do I need a fancy car for?). Still, I'd be lying if I said that I don't sometimes envy the huge walk-in closets my friends have, or I don't imagine how I'd spend lottery-money winnings if I ever actually stopped to buy a ticket (small, beautiful cottages in gorgeous locations around the world, since you asked). But even so, I can imagine a certain emptiness I would feel if I suddenly found myself with everything I ever dreamed I wanted, and nothing to strive for. It would feel very hollow, indeed.
As I concentrate on growing and morphing my business, I've been getting receiving little messages like this: the Markus Persson story, and the Garrison Keillor quote I shared at the top of this post, as two examples that have crossed my path recently. Be careful what you wish for, they seem to say. Move mindfully.
I'll definitely heed these little messages from the universe. In any event, over the course of my life, I've come to believe that there are two ways to experience joy in my life now, right this minute, and for the rest of my time on the earth. Both ways are things I've shared many times here on Chookooloonks, but this is the first time that I've thought of them as going hand-in-hand, and so I share them with you now:
1) The first is using your talents to be of service. Accepting your nomination, in other words: using the gifts and skills that light you up in service of other people. I say this not because I think it's a good and charitable thing to do to help your fellow woman and man (although I do), but for more selfish reasons: it just feels good to help people. The people you serve will be grateful, obviously, but my point is that you'll actually be happy when you do it.
2) The second is a gratitude practice. I believe that having a daily practice of thinking about what went well in your day -- everything from small, seemingly insignificant events like the barista getting your coffee order perfectly, to bigger events, like celebrating the birthday or the success of a loved one -- is a sure-fire way to quell the "why can't I be wealthy" blues. By taking note of the good in your life -- daily, with intention -- I think it helps sustain you through the tough times, and eventually, helps you redefine "wealthy" to mean something that you'll discover you already are.
Happy Monday, friends.
Soundtrack: Keep it there, by The Weepies