Earlier this afternoon, a friend posted a photograph from inside of her home -- just a simple picture of her mantel. But still, I noticed that her caption contained a considerable amount of joy.
So I sent her a private message. "Are you happy?"
And she responded:
"I am. I'm feeling more settled and secure in life than I have in a long time."
That's the kind of thing that you want to hear your friend say. It can be enough to make your day, really.
Also earlier in the day, a friend pinged me on Facebook, and shared a story of a person who was living the kind of life that I dreamed of. So I said as much.
"Oh please," he answered immediately. "You already have your dream life."
I started to protest -- I got ready to say how much lovelier life could be with more money, or a beautiful home (with actual walk-in closets!) overlooking the ocean, or being able to travel the world in a private jet -- and then I realized that I didn't believe that for a minute. The truth is, my quiet little life with Marcus and Alex here in the suburbs of Houston is enough. More than enough, even.
So I admitted he was right.
So around 6:30 tonight, sitting outside, having a glass of wine on the curb in front of my house, on the first sunny evening we've had in a while, it was great to remind myself to take a minute and note when things are good, even for the fleeting moment. Because sometimes that can be more than enough to get you through your day.
Wishing you a moment of peace and contentment, friends.